I have no idea what this is… or what it symbolises.. It just looks damn cool.
護主並沒有錯
但是盲目地護主
無論他說甚麼做甚麼都是對的
這 就是錯誤的
這 就是盲從
可是如果有勇敢的人提出來
會有一窩蜂的人把他推倒踩在地上蹂躪
然後過不久又會有人來
板上很歡迎和板主和團員不一樣的看法
不是自打嘴巴嗎?
舉例
前幾天有人提出代排和插隊的情形
剛好提到一個在板上大家都認識的人
那個人(好像叫萬萬)親口說出她找人代排這回事
可是板上很多很多人還是一味認為代排沒有錯
因為是一個換一個 人數並沒有增加
我搞不懂
我搞不懂代排這個動作甚麼時候合理化了
我搞不懂大家為甚麼沒有辦法看清楚
即使是朋友 做錯事情就是要出來指責她
如果錯了就乾脆地道歉
而不是拼命把錯誤合理化
再來因為青峰的部落格上面的一篇如今已加密的文章
鬧出了不少事端
有人在青峰板上的文章噓文
提出說部落格是公開的東西
要在上面說甚麼都得注意
雖然那個F大噓文是有點誇張
但是其中的內容還是非常中肯的
可是不巧的是他踫到了蘇打粉
他們一看到有人噓他們的神的文章的時候
眼睛立刻被蒙上了
只看到噓文 其他都變得模糊了
我看到有人請這位F大尊重自己的時候
對不起 我笑了
只要不是說青峰有多偉大有多貼心有多好的人
就不尊重自己?
那麼我應該是最不尊重自己的人了
因為很抱歉我心目中的吳青峰常常做出
我覺得他不應該做的事情
他沒有多好 也不過是個人
我可以了解明白他做事背後的原因
但是並不代表我永遠贊同他所做的每件事
所以不好意思 我很不尊重我自己
我應該反省嗎?
我真得很想對那些喜歡青峰的人說
真的喜歡他就不要一味地護他捧他
因為這樣對他來說並沒有任何的好處
反而是害了他
大家都愛好聽的話
大家都需要別人的認同
可是如果大家無條件地接受認同他做的所有事
只會讓他變本加厲
玩得更瘋狂更沒有後顧之憂
而這是不對的
或許你會說 那裏是蘇打綠的板
他們要護主他們要捧他是他們的自由
但是這個是成就自大好高騖遠又不會顧慮別人的藝人的罪魁禍首
也許因為我是認識他們在先
他們的歌變成小小的歌迷在后
所以我和別人的想法有點出入吧
還有最後我想對那些認為部落格是私人的地方的人
很抱歉 我不知道你活在甚麼年代
但是現在的世界
即使你把你部落格的文章刪掉
我還是有辦法把它給找回來的
而且只需要google cache
輕而易舉根本不會困難
現在這種科技發達的年代
只要你的東西是放上網絡的
就已經失去了私密的權利
網絡上是沒有所謂私人的東西
你在部落格的言語代表你
就已經失去了私密的權利
網絡上是沒有所謂私人的東西
你在部落格的言語代表你
我如果覺得你的部落格說的話
對我造成誹謗
我是可以告你的
它就和你親口對我說
起著一樣的作用
所以請你放棄部落格是私人的東西的迷思
張開眼睛看清楚這個新世界吧
不要活在chalk & dust的時代了
Service Matters
Really. Service makes a whole lot of difference to the overall atmosphere of a meal. The food doesn’t have to be top grade, but service is what makes it a cut above everyone else.
So it happens that the worst kind of service was rendered to me last Saturday, after the Mayday concert. We all trooped down to the usual Mayday supper place at Tiong Bahru area. We have been here many times and the lady boss is quite familiar with our faces and have seen us around even when Mayday isn’t here. However, as it is after the concert, the entire area was packed to the brim with Mayday fans and a few tables of unsuspecting customers.
Now, we are regulars, and we know that we would have to wait a long while for our dishes to be served etc. Mayday IS obviously more important than us small fries. XD… However, what we did NOT realise was that our orders could be cancelled even when we explicitly said that we still wanted that one dish that had yet to arrive!
Now, the situation was this. My table had about 7pax.. So I ordered 4 dishes. 2 veg + 2 meat dishes. One of my friends does not eat meat, therefore the 2 veg dishes became really important. The first veg dish was really fast (cos Mayday eats the same thing) that was okay. But it was 30mins and one reminder to the lady boss later, that the 2 meat dishes arrived. Another 20mins passed and still no sign of the final veg dish. So we checked in with this china server.
First she said cos this final dish (Fried Golden Mushrooms) is a bit harder to cook and would take a while. So I protested. We’ve been waiting for almost an hour and half. How long more does it need to be cooked!? The rest initially wanted to cancel the order but because one of us doesn’t eat meat, I told her to continue to serve us that particular dish. So never mind, I asked her to ask them to hurry up.
Lo and behold, the next minute she came back and promptly informed us that our order has been cancelled. It was a totally WTF moment there I tell you guys. It took me so much will power not to stand up and scream fuck-you stupid bitch at her. I made a big show of calming down and asked her if I could swop that with some other veg dish, anything that was easy to cook.
She said we’ll still have to wait. And the reason? (Here comes the classic part) They were busy cooking crabs. I totally blew it. I told her (still nicely) that fine, we’ll forget about that order and give me the bill. Her whole attitude was so nonchalant and couldn’t-be-bothered, as if we are not customers. After she walked off I was so pissed I went to another friend’s table to complain..
And I found out that she told them that there was no more Golden Mushroom! I was totally going WTF at that point in time man. I think I raised my voice so much that the others said that Mayday kept looking over to our side trying to see what was wrong.
Really, I don’t give a damn. If it wasn’t because THEY were there, it wouldn’t have been so chaotic and messy! My friend wouldn’t have gone hungry and had to eat only ONE DISH! I wouldn’t be so pissed… Them and their stupid never-ending crabs.
If I had known they were looking at us, I’d turn around and stare at them… Maybe even scold them for being such assholes. I was irrational with anger then.
Then when the lady boss came over to collect the bill from my friend’s table, we complained to her.. But making sure we did not scold HER, but ensured that she understand how unhappy and upset we were.
I hope that China woman gets a good scolding and bucks up the next time.
And because of this, I dropped $22 at the roadside eating place. DAMNIT.
都快10年了。我和X JAPAN相逢恨晚,他們1997年解散、hide在1998年去世,而我認識他們卻是1999年的事。
記得剛開始的時候是因為Forever Love是X-1999動畫的主題曲。而我,愛上漫畫愛上X。我愛上Forever Love的柔美旋律,愛上toshi特別的聲線,愛上yoshiki柔情中帶有點瘋
狂的鋼琴。我愛上了X。在聽不懂歌詞的狀況下,愛上了X。
開始時他們的形象有點讓我不知所措。穿女裝、長頭髮、化濃妝… 這個是甚麼跟甚麼啊?我甚至懷疑我是不是搞錯了?像這個樣子的樂團可以作出像Forever Love那樣子的
歌??我開始懷疑我的眼睛和耳朵。
于是我向朋友借來X Clips那張VCD。我非得要親眼看到他們在我眼前以這種形象這種樣子來唱Forever Love。結果,Clips當中,最讓我著迷的是Silent Jealousy。那個鼓的速度是我17年來(2000年那時候17歲啦)從來沒有見識過的。那種速度、那種鼓點、眼神里那種驕傲的瘋狂,我著迷不已。
于是我像發了瘋一樣,拼命搜集他們的資料。2000年的時候,科技還沒有那么發達,網絡速度只有56kbps,也沒有wikipedia,也沒有google。那時候只能在奇摩搜尋里面慢慢找慢慢找。
越是收集﹐越愛他們。yoshiki的執著﹑熱情﹐對自己要走的道路完全沒有懷疑。記得他們剛出道時﹐根本沒有唱片公司要簽他們。結果yoshiki便自己設立一間唱片製作公司﹐自己發行他們的單曲。結果大賣﹐引起各大唱片行的注意﹐才紛紛向他們招手。
這種精神、這種態度、這種理念,現在的人哪有?現在什么都要端在盤子上給他的所謂音樂人,有誰有這種理念,又那么相信自己的能力?
后來漸漸開始存錢收集cd,才發現他們的歌真的多元化,就如同yoshiki曾經說過,X的歌是以感官的方面來做題材的。也難怪有像orgasm、standing sex、i’ll kill you 之類的
歌。XD
接下來的事我想和所有其他板友一樣,我就此愛上了他們。我追溯這他們的歷史,直到看到hide意外去世的新聞時,整個人頓時陷入谷底。我記得那時候的感覺完全就是“此生
永遠沒有機會看到他們現場表演了啊!”殘念。
結果機會來了,也還有特權可以免費入場,或者是領記者證,但是經濟使然只好忍痛。以目前經濟狀況,可能連酒店都沒有辦法付,更何況是從新加坡到東京的機票。沒辦法,
在日子越來越逼近的時候,看到會去看演唱會的朋友興奮不已的樣子,整個心是揪痛的。沒辦法,只好假裝安慰自己說沒有hide不算真正的X。
今晚的演唱會我沒有辦法多說,因為再說我心會很痛。
總而言之,
WE ARE X!
蘇打綠 – 這天
這天 | zhe tian | This Day
作詞 / 作曲:吳青峰
zuo ci / qu: wu qing feng
Lyrics / Music: Qing Feng
夠深刻了嗎 來躺下吧
gou shen ke le ma / lai tang xia ba
Is it deep enough? Come lie down,
讓我輕撫你安慰 傷害我後的疲累
rang wo qing fu ni an wei / shang hai wo hou de pi bei
Let me caress away the fatigue of your hurting me
夠尖銳了嗎 看我的疤
gou jian rui le ma / kan wo de ba
Is it sharp enough? Look at my scars,
用溫柔包覆勇敢 給喘息的你笑臉
yong wen rou bao fu yong gan / gei chuan xi de ni xiao lian
Let me wrap up my courage and gentility, serving it with a smile
生命從來不覺得 自己對誰該負責任
sheng ming cong lai bu jue de / zi ji dui shui gai fu ze ren
Life never thought about being responsible to anyone
(我們看了編造的謊言
(wo men kan le bian zao de huang yan
We saw those lies
就如此輕易將彼此劃成碎片)
jiu ru ci qing yi jiang bi ci hua cheng sui pian)
and easily used them to rip each other into shreads
太多虛偽情節的表面 模糊陌生的眼 (1)
tai duo xu wei qing jie de biao mian / mo hu mo sheng de yan
Too many hypocritical facades, blurring these stranger eyes
請讓我在你身邊 一起穿越這條街
qing ran wo zai ni shen bian / yi qi chuan yue zhe tiao jie
Please let me stay by your side, crossing the street together
請讓我在你身邊 一起紀念這一天
qing rang wo zai ni shen bian / yi qi ji nian zhe yi tian
Please let me stay by your side, remembering this day together
夠痛快了嗎 我知道啊
gou tong kuai le ma / wo zhi dao a
Is it hearty enough? Of course I know
躲在你利刃之內 驕傲的自卑作祟 (2)
duo zai ni li ren zhi nei / jiao ao de zi bei zuo sui
Been hiding in your blades, my proud self-consciousness acting up
夠鮮豔了嗎 血染的花
gou xian yan le ma / xue ran de hua
Is it bright enough? This blood-dyed flower
被你刺滿的雙手 此刻擦乾你眼淚
bei ni ci man de shuang shou / ci ke ca gan ni yan lei
Let me wipe your tears with these hands full of your stab wounds
總有一天我們都死去
zong you yi tian wo men dou si qu
We will all die some day,
丟掉名字的回憶再沒有意義
diu diao ming zi de hui yi zai ye mei you yi yi
Memories without a name no longer means anything
總有一天我們都忘記
zong you yi tian wo men dou wang ji
We will all forget some day,
曾為了一個越演越爛的故事傷心
ceng wei le yi ge yue yan yue lan de gu shi shang xin
How we cried over a downward sliding storyline
總有一天我們都嘆息
zong you yi tian wo men dou tan xi
We all sign some day,
笑著緬懷有過的愚蠢的美麗 就讓現在過去
xiao zhe mian huai you guo yu chun de mei li / jiu rang xian zai guo qu
Reminiscing our beautiful stupidity with a smile, letting the now flow to the past
讓我握你的手 徹底了解顫抖
rang wo wo ni de shou / che di liao jie chan dou
Hold your hand and I’ll understand your shivers
讓你握我的手 你會知道我
rang ni wo wo de shou / ni hui zhi dao wo
Hold my hand and you will know me
(透過我的眼淚看你的臉 自由是我們需要的特權
(tou guo wo de yan lei kan ni de lian / zi you shi wo men xu yao de te quan
Seeing your face through my tears, freedom is the privilege that we needed
你笑了 我笑了)
ni xiao le / wo xiao le)
You smiled, so did I
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Translator’s notes:
The song is mainly describing how one party (you) have been hurting the other party (me) throughout the relationship, yet I have been trying to embrace it and put up a strong face, pretending everything is all okay.
It is written in past perfect tense, implying that this relationship is over and that I have gotten over it. However, it still makes up a big part of my life and it’s something I will not be able to forget…
And when the relationship was being ended, the 2 parties came to a nice closure, where they actually understood each other more than when they were still together…
(1) 太多虛偽情節的表面 模糊陌生的眼
IMO, to me, personally, it is trying to describe how all these rumours / hypocritical actions etc have turned a couple into strangers… thus “陌生的眼”…
(2) 躲在你利刃之內 驕傲的自卑作祟
It’s a metaphor insinuating that you have been making life painful for me, yet because of my pride & low self esteem, I’m still not leaving you.
[設計、科技] ASUS土木系手提電腦
http://asia.cnet.com/crave/2008/03/12/rory-reid/
手提電腦這個東西
一向對我來說都沒有很大的設計突破
不是和名牌車合作 (ASUS Lamborghini & ACER Ferrari)
就是和運動掛鉤 (Toshiba World Cup)
可是最新在德國CeBIT展銷會掀起一陣熱潮的新ASUS手提電腦
外殼完全使用竹制成的一系列手提電腦和電腦顯示器
當然還有像MAC Mini的迷你主機
ASUS這個品牌對我來說一直都是品質保證
他們的主機板不止一次受到各界業者的一致贊同推薦
也因為他們長久專注于研發及制造電腦內部的硬體
對于設計方面有點欠缺
可是近年來 ASUS的手提電腦已經不再只是功能好
他們也越來越注重設計感
也一直都很積極參與及推廣環保這塊地
所以我可以很肯定地說
在未來2、3年內 ASUS會成為手提電腦界的佼佼者
這個真的是臺灣的驕傲
來認識一下吧
附上wiki:http://tinyurl.com/296rbw
我也愛特權啊
超愛自己厚著臉皮不恥下問
問了還覺得自己很賤
我自己沒有做的事情我才敢說別人
要說 這次我一張照片影片都沒有
8月也是他們要求要合照的
我的照片可能比那些迷妹還要少
我想記者應該都比我多
自己問心無愧的話 何必怕別人說你
別人還沒有說到你 自己抓自己的包
嫉妒我們一班人比較高調嗎?
那么是你們不了解他們吧
試想想 如果你是表演者
而你的歌迷除了拍照什么也不配合
叫揮手也沒有 大家一起唱也沒有
只是拼了老命拿著相機猛拍猛拍
然后有另外一批人很嗨很嗨
根本就是很enjoy的樣子
你會比較在意誰?你會比較喜歡誰?
而且小巨蛋演唱會是我自己去問的
我寄信給cellur寄到我都覺得自己很煩
幾乎每一兩個禮拜寄一次信
自己不會做人不要怨別人有“特權”
如果不是cellur自己破功
我是不會自動說出我認識他們的
我這次也沒有特權啊
也是要像普通歌迷一樣 很可憐的自己搭巴士到植物園
也沒有跟來跟去
這種人這麼愛猜忌別人嫉妒別人 生活好累
我只有X JAPAN那個才叫特權
可是這個特權也是我用勞力換回來的
這次的心得文我把3個活動綜合在一篇po文來寫。
活動1:1003電臺訪問
每次聽訪問之前會有一點點期待,因為明知道新加坡DJ平均水平不高,但是因為這次是好玩的蘇打綠,一定很有趣。
果 然….. 整個感覺就是個很沒有水準的訪問。根本像是在聊天。整個訪問大概只談了五分鐘的新專輯,其余時間就閑聊些有的沒的。爆家凱的料、硬拗青峰唱翻墻會唱的別人 的歌。整個很囧。打綠連一首新專輯的歌都沒有現場唱到!!DJ也完全沒有做功課, 都不知道打綠已經有廣播節目了,還建議他們應該來當DJ。然后打綠通知他們關于“空氣中的視聽與幻覺”后,那兩個‘可愛’的DJ竟然問“是全部一起上 嗎?”既然沒有聽過就不要裝成好像很厲害一樣。試想想,怎么可能六個人一起主持電臺節目?那不就太混亂、太沒有主題了嗎?
然后竟然也不知道紅包場和奇裝異服的表演是同樣一個。
最可笑的是,打綠必須離開直播室到唐城坊辦簽名會的時候,那兩個DJ竟然說“蘇打綠要上路了”。我差點沒有把我口中的水噴出來!現在是怎樣?要詛咒打綠去見閻羅王嗎?
當然有超級好笑的話題。比如說,因為其中一位DJ叫靈芝,打綠上場介紹自己的時候就說自己是甚麼人參啦,燕窩啦等等補品。家凱原來還是對榴蓮有些陰影….. 小威執意這里的漢堡王很不一樣…. 還有青峰和他的海南雞飯等等。爆笑!
活動2:唐城坊簽唱會
首先在大概下午4點多的時候,舞臺前面還有一整排的男生內褲大籃子,就大減價時拿來用的那種。那排籃子就在舞臺的正中間,甚至很靠近舞臺,根本只能擠兩排人。我本來想打綠是不是到最后得對著一堆內褲唱歌。好奇妙。還好報館的人來了,叫人把東西移走。
然后因為我和幾個朋友早早跑到樓上subway霸占他們的圓形看臺,在有一點距離但是沒有遮擋的地方看,又因為我們自己一批人馬可以玩自嗨!
晚上的現場主持人也是有點莫名其妙,口水多過茶。明明是簽唱會嘛,就讓打綠他們表演啦,不要一直說話了。然后起初打綠全部人都站在舞臺后面,我一直示意說移向前來可是太遠了,他們看不是很明白我的意思。可是這個主持人的責任啊!明明兩首歌的中間可以
提醒他們移向前來的呀!唉~~
還有真的,那些在樓下的歌迷很討厭,一直不停地拍照錄影。我還看到一個人拿著大炮機!!!!!有夠夸張的。我懷疑根本沒有幾個人在專心聽歌!夠了好不好!不要再拍了!也沒有人去阻止一下吼,真的是很糟。
最可笑的是,這個明明是第三張專輯的簽唱會,主持人竟然要求青峰唱小情歌。拜托啦!很奇怪好不好,這個又不是演唱會有很長的時間,這個是新專輯的簽唱會,干嘛唱舊歌?
然后一直訪問訪問訪問。可是訪問也沒有談到新專輯的任何東西。還把紅包場說成是臺南紅包場….. 真的搞不清楚狀況。結果我們樓上的不要臉的人在主持人訪問到一半的時候故意很大聲喊“唱歌!”青峰迅速轉過頭問“唱甚麼歌?”結果還是被主持人抓回去。
活動3:植物園表演
和活動2一樣的主持人。我一聽到是一樣的人我真的整個快抓狂。又會有白癡事情發生。果然。因為當天我們有一位議員攜帶家眷到現場看表演,結果介紹議員的時候沒有叫大家站起來迎接,可是請蘇打綠的時候卻要大家站起來迎接。這個真的很不識大體。還好這位
議員比較隨和,無所謂這種小事,還聽完全場3個樂團再走。
表演本身真的很棒。青峰的演唱power和團員的默契姆庸置疑吧,那我應該來說些不一樣,有笑點的東西。因為舞臺和觀眾席之間有個不算特別大的池塘,阿福一直說像侏羅紀公園然后青峰說怕我們這些坐在邊緣的朋友會掉下水,可是停頓了一秒之后又說,其實他“很期待”。
然后唱某首歌的一半的時候突然有一只魚從水里跳了出來,青峰嚇到的表情好好笑!后來還問我們有沒有看到那條魚?
就快要唱到預訂的最后一首歌的時候,青峰就問有沒有時間限制。主辦單位說沒有的時候大家都好嗨哦!可是有一個白癡主持人在臺后面一直重復encore,結果青峰受不了說“我都已經在臺上了。”這個點真的很好笑。我幾乎笑到掉入池塘。就明明喊encore就是拱回
到后臺的樂團再次出來,可是他們都沒有下臺,就不用喊encore,然他們繼續唱就可以了嘛。科科…..
青峰決定就唱4首歌當結尾,讓我們點歌。就是上面有板友po出的歌單的歌啦。最后一首『相信』之前,他再次介紹團員和閑聊一點。他問家凱這次沒有脫,還想拱他脫衣,問我們要不要看。我本身不是很想看到他的“胴體”,可是有某位“饑渴的女性”大喊‘脫
掉!’以上雙引號的都是青峰說的話。我是沒有看到那位“饑渴的女性”到底是誰啦,可是還蠻好笑的。
然后有人點蔡依林的『愛無赦』,青峰說沒有戴手套不能啦,然后竟然爆阿福的料,說他其實最喜歡模仿蔡依林的舞步。然后又攻擊小威,說他最厲害扮山東大妞。還說“其實他們比較娘,我私底下都很MAN的。”整個是好笑到……. 結論就是青峰還是很介意那個
在新加坡演唱會公然說他很娘的人。哈哈哈哈哈!太好笑了。
最后就是唱『相信』忘詞。第二句就凸槌….. 然后一直笑沒有辦法回神。當然后來還是有把歌好好唱完啦。
No more Polaroids
Yep. You read right.
Polaroid is shutting 2 facilities and will cease to produce any more cameras and films for what they are famous for. Instant large-format film cameras.
So grab your Polaroids online now before they become history.
Sec 5 class advised: Go to ITE instead
There’s a reason why there are so few success stories of bad kids turn good. Or lousy students top the school…
Principal tells students that they are unlikely to do well at O levels
By Sandra Davie, Education Correspondent
CALL it a disheartening start to the new school year.
A group of 27 girls in a Secondary 5 class in a mission school – which shall remain unnamed – were advised by their principal on the first day of school last week to seek transfers to the Institute of Technical Education (ITE), since they were unlikely to do well in the O levels this year.
To back her point, she even flashed the girls’ detailed N-level grades on the board in class using an overhead projector; she also stressed that she wanted 100 per cent passes in her school.
The result: teens with punctured self-confidence and some fuming parents.
The girls, who had done well enough in last year’s N-level examinations to get to Sec 5, were looking to repeat their good performance at the O levels this year and move on to the polytechnics.
Those with strong N-level results had a new option this year: They could have skipped Sec 5 and headed for higher-level technical courses at ITE, but the deadline for applications closed on Jan 2.
Five girls from the class confirmed the incident. They have decided to stay on in the school, but if they choose to take their principal’s advice, they can still apply for ITE courses starting in April.
The father of one of the five, describing the incident as ‘totally defeating’ for parents like him, said he and his wife had been motivating their daughter to aim to do well in the O levels this year.
‘My daughter’s self-esteem had gone up multiple levels just seeing her results and realising her hopes to attempt the O levels.
How are we to motivate our children to do better with second chances when there are principals who are so uncaring and unethical?’
More… His daughter said she is not considering a transfer to the ITE because she wants to go on to a polytechnic after Sec 5.
She added: ‘It is very sad when your principal doesn’t have faith in you and will not give you a chance.’
But having decided to stay on, she said she feels added pressure to do well: ‘I feel quite nervous, and so do quite a few of my classmates.’
Another parent said that after the principal’s talk, he had to do ‘damage control’ to convince his daughter that she stood a good chance of getting into a sports management course in a polytechnic.
A third parent, a mother, is considering writing to the Ministry of Education (MOE).
Saying this was a result of school heads being too concerned with MOE’s annual ranking of schools, she added: ‘This is a mission school at that. Where’s the compassion?’
She said she thought moves to weed out weaker students by urging them to drop difficult subjects were a thing of the past.
When annual ranking of secondary schools was introduced in 1992, some schools were reported to have pressed students to drop ‘tougher’ subjects such as Literature, in apparent attempts to protect or improve their rankings.
MOE has tweaked the system, taking fewer subjects into account.
About 60 per cent of Normal stream students who sit for the O levels do well enough to win places in the polytechnics.
Of the five girls who spoke to The Straits Times, only one defended her principal, saying she ‘meant well’.
Said the teen: ‘My class is a weak class. Some of the girls may be better off in the ITE.’
Wow. I thought teachers/principals are supposed to encourage these kids? Didn’t she study educational psychology when she was in NIE? At least I know that’s a core module for all my teacher friends.
Oh. I’m so sorry. I forgot that being so high up, she’d probably forgotten how to be a good teacher. She just well.. manages.
Being in the N level stream may not be such a disgraceful thing in this time and day, but if the students were to compare themselves to some of the students from the express stream in the same school they might still feel that inferiority complex. Schools are supposed to help them kill that inferiority complex and channel it into something motivating and encouraging. Not talk down to them. And make them feel worse.
No wonder kids have no respect for teachers nowadays.. Not when your principal looks down on you.
And she tries to explain herself:
THE school principal told The Straits Times yesterday she was merely trying to give her girls a ‘wake-up call’ when she spoke to them on the first day of school.
She confirmed that she had used an overhead projector to display the girls’ results, but that it was to impress on them that they would have to work hard to qualify for a place in the polytechnics.
She said: ‘It’s a fact. If a student scored a Grade 4 or 5 for a subject in the N levels, she is unlikely to pass the subject in the O levels.’
N-level subjects are graded from 1 to 5, with 1 being the best grade.
The principal added: ‘Some…who don’t qualify for poly will end up in the ITE anyway, so they might as well go direct to the ITE.’
She confirmed that she told the girls she wanted 100 per cent passes in her school, but that what she meant was that she wanted all her girls to do well in the O levels – not that she did not want poor performers to tar the school’s record or lower its ranking.
Noting that well over 80 per cent of her Normal stream students who sat for the O levels last year did well enough to qualify for the polytechnics, she added: ‘But it takes a lot of hard work and the girls needed to know that.’
When given the principal’s side of the story, two of the parents interviewed said that if all she wanted was to give the girls a wake-up call, she could have done it differently.
One parent said: ‘I would have preferred it if she had called the parents in and given them the hard facts, instead of destroying the confidence of the girls.’
Maybe all teachers and principals need a crash course in psychology. Mean exactly what you say.
I firmly believe that if the other party misunderstands you, it’s your fault for not explaining it properly in the first place.